Monday, January 24, 2011

I hate myself!

Have you ever felt hating yourselves for various reasons?you might say that your weakness might be one of the reasons why you hate yourselves.You insecurities and confidence lacking lead you to isolate yourselves from others and come worst to worst, you might hurt yourselves too...

The question is...
Why you hate yourselves?
1)Dissatisfaction of self-appearance
This kind of feeling is already reminscenced in every human regardless their gender.But it somehow become emerged once the people around them started to voice out their appearance.Thus, it makes them to believe what they think is true.
2) Rejection
Every human must endure the rejection in their lives even once,but somehow the acceptance is different.Rejection could be in various form and most people let themselves being influenced with their disappointment  until think themselves are useless.
3)Love and Acceptance
It's human nature to be loved and to love somebody.Nevertheless, when it doesn't happen to ourselves we might feel there's nobody who loves or cares about ourselves.Therefore, we begin to dig the source why it happens to ourselves by thinking something ridiculous and finally,hating ourselves.
4) Mistakes
All humans used to make mistakes even though we may say "it's a silly mistake that should not be done".When this mistake happened, we started to endlessly blame ourselves as the whole factor even though there is somebody tries to fix our perception to ourselves.
So, what are the solutions for this problem?
To know the solutions, I'll share more with all of you in the next post...
Don't miss to read my upcoming posts afterwards...

"I hate myself!Somebody help me..."
Toodles!^_~

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